You already are one of a kind. All you really need to do to be different, to stand out in a crowd, is to be yourself.
If you can also love who you are, and own your own self image, that is even greater for you. ‘But who am I?’ you may well ask yourself.
Aha! It’s your job to find this out. Along the way, others will attempt to help you do this, by telling you who they think you are. Most of them don’t really know, because nobody knows you better than you know yourself.
Some of them can see you better than you can presently see yourself, because they aren’t judging you the way you are. Others can only see you through their own filters, so they’re really not able to help you decipher yours. If you can learn to see yourself without all that judgment, you will see yourself more clearly.
You may have been under an illusion. This illusion says that who you naturally are isn’t good enough somehow, and that you need to change yourself into somebody else, and to become like the others. Only then will you be considered a success.
If you can be safe enough to become disillusioned for a time, you can find the time and space to actually see yourself as you are. If you can allow yourself to be in a place where it doesn’t make sense, where you don’t know, where you don’t have to explain anything to anybody, you might find what you’re looking for.
You could find that being different, which is simply being yourself, is an amazing thing to be.
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